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Re: Grounds for Breaking Up

starskii_07 — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 12:33:48 -0000

Thank you so much! I really needed that..

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Re: Grounds for Breaking Up

SteveA78 — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 01:01:01 -0000

Oh, this is a tough one, but not that totally unusual. We often fall for the close friends of our former boyfriends and girlfriends. A BFexBF (best friend of ex-boyfriend) is someone likely to share some of the same personality traits and interests of our former partners, and it's pretty easy to shift from seeing them as friends to seeing them as something more. But you and your ex broke up 14 months ago, and almost a year after that you began going out with his friend (or did your ex-BF break up the friendship with your current BF once you two started dating?). If that bugs your ex, that's his problem. If that bugs other people, that's their problem. But if it bugs either your current BF or you, then, yeah, it's your problem. What to do about it? I think it's a good idea to spend your time thinking about something else, such as does your current boyfriend have some of the same personality traits that led you and your ex-boyfriend to break up? People will eventually get over the fact that you and he have sparked a romance with each other. And it's only been 3 months for you two, which is a drop in the bucket of time needed for a relationship to flower. But yeah, I would sit down and think really hard about whether the things that caused my exBF and me to break up might repeat themselves with my current BF.

Re: Grounds for Breaking Up

starskii_07 — Thu, 25 Oct 2012 16:13:15 -0000

Hi Lovehacked!

I'm writing to ask you guys for some advice...

You see I've been in a relationship with this amazing guy for the past 3 months!
He makes me very happy, but recently I've been having mixed feelings.
The guy I'm with is actually my ex's best friend...
My ex and I broke up about a year and 2 months ago.

They both basically have the same friends and it seems like people who once got
along with us now are changing...there is constant gossip about me and my man, and even after
my bf talked it over with his friend, my ex, about being with me..the guy still talks crap about us..

My ex even went as far as to go to my bf's sister and tell her that I am still "in love with him"
and now my bf's family is suspicious of me...which is kinda weird being that we go over
to his house once a week...

So now I'm just all mixed up...I really want to be with him, but I am afraid that all the people who care about him will go away because of...I have talked to him about this and he tells me not to worry about it...but that still doesn't make it feel any better.

I really need an outside opinion!

Re: Men Iz Stoopid

Jeremy Ruggles — Sun, 13 May 2012 00:50:11 -0000

I think that temptation is fairly equal between sexes... the only difference is the type of temptation and the strength of the relationship being challenged... If a boyfriend and girlfriend who are pretty attached to each other are faced with great temptation, either one may give in.... But, if you are in a committed relationship and are truly in love, then I would like to think that both parties would be able to resist any temptations that may be presented to them.

Thanks for sharing!

~Jeremy

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